Michael’s Bariatric Surgery Journey: “Declaring My New Birthday”

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In 2009, Michael Kelly learned that his health was in danger. At 43 years old, he weighed 360 pounds and was living with gout, arthritis, sleep apnea and Type 2 diabetes. That’s when he decided to see Michel Murr, MD, a bariatric surgeon with AdventHealth Tampa.

“Michael fit the criteria for bariatric surgery,” Dr. Murr recalls. “His BMI was above 40, he had several serious conditions connected to his weight and was on multiple medications that weren’t really working. Plus, his quality of life was impacted. He felt miserable and couldn’t do the things he wanted to do. But beyond that, I saw a willingness to make meaningful changes to reclaim his health.”

Michael knew he didn’t have a choice if he wanted to live, and he’s never looked back. In fact, he considers October 9, 2009 — the day of his gastric bypass surgery — his new birthday. Because it’s the day he got a second chance at life.

Of course, those close to Michael have been curious about his transformation over the years, particularly those who are frustrated with their own condition. And even though 16 years have passed since his surgery, he’s ready to help others who might be in the same place he was.

With so much at stake, helping others realize their health goals is on Michael’s mind — and ours. He’s here to answer the most common questions about his bariatric surgery, in his own words.

What made you consider bariatric surgery?

I was getting a glaucoma implant when my bloodwork showed I had developed Type 2 diabetes. I called my best friend, who got me in to see his endocrinologist that afternoon, who referred me to Dr. Murr. I was 360 pounds at the time and felt miserable. I realized if I didn’t make a major change, I might not be here much longer.

What was your first meeting with Dr. Murr like?

I was nervous at first, but he put me at ease. I remember listening to him talk, and he said, right off the bat, that this would not be something to do for a wedding, cruise, birthday, high school reunion or anything like that. This would be a lifetime commitment. And I knew he was serious about that. I had to meet with a therapist to make sure my mindset was right, and I realized I couldn’t just rush my way through this. But Dr. Murr gave me the reassurance I needed to feel confident moving forward.

How was your recovery after surgery?

It was challenging at first. I had to learn how to eat all over again, much like a newborn. I worked closely with my dietitian and joined support groups to figure out which foods I could tolerate and which to avoid. It was a learning curve, for sure, but it got easier.

How has your life changed since surgery?

I see pictures of my former self now and realize I’m no longer that person. I used to plan trips around food, for example, but now I plan them around experiences. One of the first things I did after I’d recovered from surgery was to go whitewater rafting with my aunt in Georgia, something I’d never done before.

Today, I’ve lost 160 pounds and have kept it off for 15 years. I’m off my diabetes medication and no longer have sleep apnea. I’ve also made several dreams of mine a reality, like getting married in 2019 and taking some dream vacations. I’ve traveled to Thailand, played with elephants, pet tigers and saw the Alps with St. Bernards — I’m seeing the world and living my best life. A trip to Africa is next.

To what do you credit your success?

More than anything, having a good support system in place before my surgery is what helped the most. I knew it would be crucial for me. Accountability was — and remains — important, too. That’s why I continue to see Dr. Murr once a year. Also, of course, I had to learn how to eat right.

What would you tell someone who’s considering weight-loss surgery?

The hardest part is making that first call. You might be embarrassed or scared, but I promise they’ll see you as a person. It’s important to know they’re not there to judge you. But you do have to be ready to begin the journey.

After that, the most critical step is finding the support you need to succeed — for the long haul. Significant weight loss is a marathon, not a sprint. And the more support you have, the more likely you are to stay encouraged and engaged in the process. If you don’t have family or friends in your life to fill that role for you, look for support somewhere else rather than setting out to do it alone. There are many resources online or at the hospital if you reach out.

Caring for Michael Has Been a Career Highlight for Dr. Murr

Michael is a special person to Dr. Murr, and he emphasizes that a positive outlook is crucial for a patient’s long-term success. “Michael is the type of person who brings joy to every conversation,” he says. “In fact, his upbeat, joyful attitude is infectious in our office. When he comes in, it always has an impact.”

Dr. Murr goes on to share that doctors pick this field of medicine to help patients feel whole — and that achieving that goal is how his team measures its success. “Over the past 15 years,” Dr. Murr continues, “Michael and I have formed a heartwarming patient-doctor relationship. In fact, helping Michael has been one of the highlights of my career.”

We’re Here to Guide You to Your New Life

We thank Michael for his inspiring testimony. Choosing bariatric surgery is a life-changing decision, and it’s essential to consult a professional who can evaluate your unique needs. Our expert, compassionate bariatric surgeons are ready to help you take your first step toward a brand-new life. Visit us here to learn more about our weight-loss care services or request an appointment today.

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